Bandits Gang Rape Pregnant Woman To Death In Niger State

 A pregnant mother of three has been gang r@ped to death by terrorists in Dnakundna village in Shiroro Local Government Area of Niger State.

 
The incident occurred when the woman ran into the bandits as she fled from an attack on her village. 
 
Sources from the community told The Nation that the terrorists had imposed a  N2 million levy on the villagers to allow them to harvest from their farms.
 
But it was gathered that the villagers could not pay the sum, which angered the bandits.

 
To avoid being attacked, the villagers, especially women and children in their numbers, decided to leave the village but unknown to them that the bandits had already been informed of their mass exodus and decided to lay an ambush.
 
The pregnant woman was not lucky as she and her three children ran into the ambush, and were matched into the bush. 
 
After being raped by no fewer than seven men, the woman was left with bruises all over her body.
 
She was taken to the hospital by her family but died on Friday night, December 23, 2022.
 
It was gathered that many villagers were abducted during the attack.

Sexual abuse in relationships: Can your partner sexually abuse you ?

 What is Sexual Abuse in Relationships?

Sexual abuse in relationships refers to a series of behaviors used to manipulate or influence an intimate partner. Typically, these behaviors are designed by the perpetrator to gain control over another person sexually. This may involve acts of physical abuse, but it may only involve mental and emotional manipulation.

Relationship sexual abuse can refer to any unwanted or non-consensual sexual contact between a person and their romantic partner. This type of abuse involves pressuring, coercing, or forcing someone to perform a sexual act that they do not want to perform.

Can Your Partner Sexually Abuse You?

Yes, you can be sexually abused by your partner. Sexual abuse is a crime, if it takes the form of domestic abuse or violence between two partners (including in a marriage). The definition of sexual assault is any type of unwanted sexual act, including sexual touching, fondling, or rape.

You might be the victim of sexual abuse by your partner if you did not give your consent, you were under the age of 18, you were intoxicated, or you were manipulated or threatened into sexual activity. Your partner might also be guilty of committing sexual abuse against you in conjunction with other forms of abuse, including physical or mental abuse.

Signs of sexual abuse in a relationship

Sexual abuse and harassment can happen in a relationship, and it’s more common than you think. Here are a few signs of this behavior that are important for you to know.

1* They abuse your trust

If you are dating someone, there is a certain level of trust involved. However, a clear sign of sexual abuse is when your partner abuses the trust you have in them for their own pleasure. This can include them violating your boundaries when you aren’t fully aware, such as if you are sleeping, or if you are under the influence of alcohol or drugs. This is a very serious act of sexual abuse.

* They pressure you to do things

The first sign of sexual abuse in a relationship is if your partner pressures you or is overly pushy when it comes to sexual acts. This can be done aggressively, but it can also be done in a subtle way such as making you feel guilty or ashamed for not engaging in certain sexual behavior.

This can include pressure to perform sexual acts you aren’t comfortable with or it can involve non-physical acts such as pressuring you to sext them. Agreeing to date someone does not mean you’ve consented to any sexual act – Remember to be clear about what you are comfortable and uncomfortable with and be careful around anyone who pressures you to change your mind.

3* They disrespect your privacy

There are many ways in which a partner can disrespect your privacy. This can include sharing or threatening to share private photographs or videos of you with their friends or classmates, or online.

Your partner is also disrespecting your privacy if they speak about private details of your intimate life with others, without your consent. Remember that you have a right to privacy regarding your sex life and body and your partner should respect that.

Examples of sexual abuse in a relationship

Unwanted touching

Demanding sex

Forcing sex

Name-calling with sexual epithets

Demanding sex after a violent incident

Forcing you to engage in prostitution or pornography

Forcing you to have sex with others besides your partner

Insisting on anything sexual that frightens or hurts you

Refusing to use safe sex practices

Withholding sex as a form of control

Videotaping or photographing sexual acts and posting them without your permission

Alleging that you have a history of prostitution on legal papers

What is considered sexual abuse in a relationship marriage?

It’s a legitimate question. But what most people don’t realize is that sexual abuse in marriage is both a form of domestic violence and rape.

Rape is about consent, nowhere in any law does it say that being in the institution of marriage is a form of exception. There is a religious law that does allow it, but we will not discuss that further.

Marriages are about partnerships, not sex. Sex, even in a marital environment, is still consensual. Married couples chose each other as lifetime mates. They are expected to have and raise children together.

That doesn’t mean that baby-making is allowed all the time. But what is considered sexual abuse in marriage? Where does the law draw the line between legal and illegal?

In reality, even if the law is clear about the need for consent, in practical application, it is a vast grey area.

First off, most cases are unreported. If it does get reported, most local law enforcement tries not to interfere with marital affairs, knowing it is hard to prove in court. That is why most of the work saving women in such situations is done by NGOs focused on women’s rights.

The impact of sexual abuse in relationships/marriage

Sexual abuse has devastating impacts on a person, and those impacts are compounded when the abuse occurs in a marriage. Two of those impacts — faith struggles and shame — leave a victim confused and often silent.

Statistics reveal that sexual assault or forced sex occurs in approximately 40 to 45 percent of marriage relationships that have involved verbal or physical violence. Marital rape occurs in 10 to 14 percent of all marriages.

Women often don’t reveal sexual abuse in marriage — not even in counseling. Shame is a contributing factor to this, but victims often also experience confusion about what’s happening to them. Over the years, I’ve had hundreds of conversations with women who are being sexually abused by their husbands but don’t realize it. They know something is wrong but don’t know what it is.

Man Arrested While Bathing With Blood In Ogun

 A 49-year-old man identified as Ganiyu Shina has been arrested by the Ogun state Police Command for bathing with blood at a community river in the Kotopo area of Odeda local government.

The suspect of No 4, Oguji street, Obantoko Abeokuta, was arrested on Thursday, December 15 after being sighted by members of the community at a River Bank, where he parked his Nissan commercial vehicle, came out with a local sponge and a container filled with blood and started bathing with it.

It was gathered that Immediately he discovered that some people were watching him, he took to his heels, but was chased and apprehended by members of the community.

A call was made to the police at Aregbe divisional headquarters by a member of the community, and the DPO, SP Bunmi Asogbon quickly led the patrol team to the scene, from where the suspect was brought to the station.

On interrogation, the suspect claimed to have a spiritual problem, and that a herbalist instructed him to perform the ritual. He claimed further that the blood in his possession is not human, but that of a cow.

Confirming the incident, the spokesperson of the state police command, SP Abimbola Oyeyemi, said the state Commissioner of Police, CP Lanre Bankole, has directed that the remaining blood should be taken for laboratory analysis, to ascertain whether it is human blood or not.

He added that the police boss has also praised members of the community for not taking laws into their hands and assured them that the suspect will be properly investigated.

Young Lady Killed And Dumped By Roadside In Anambra State (Graphic)

 Residents of Anambra State Woke up Yesterday Morning to find the body of a young lady, Killed And Dumped By The Roadside On Amaechi Road, Close To Nnewi Town.

The identity of the deceased could not be ascertained as some residents told NaijaCover Media Crew that the lady was not living in the area because her face was unknown.

According To Whatsapp Chat, the young lady was Murdered And Dumped By Unknown People, In The Night.

It was learned that the lady might have visited the area for an undisclosed mission before she might have been killed and dumped there.

There Is No Trace Of Any Part Of Her Body Missing, and the cause of her death still remains a Mystery to the Residents.

Raped UNILORIN Student: Two Undergraduates Sentenced To Death

 A Kwara State High Court sitting in Ilorin and presided over by Justice Ibrahim Yusuf on Tuesday sentenced two students, Abdulazeez Ismail and Ajala Oluwatimileyin, to death for the murder of a 300-level undergraduate of the University of Ilorin, Blessing Olajide.

Olajide was raped and killed by the duo on June 2, 2021, at her sister’s house in the Tanke area of Ilorin, Kwara State.

Justice Yusuf also sentenced another student, Oyeyemi Omogbolahan, to life improvement, while two siblings: Abdulkarim Shuaib (aka Easy) and Kareem Rasheed (Rashworld), were sentenced to three years imprisonment each for withdrawing money from the Guarantee Trust Bank account of the deceased a few days after she was killed.

Three others: Abdullateef Abdulrahman, Daud Adebayo (Bashman), and Akande Oladoja, were discharged and acquitted by the court.

Delivering judgment on 11 counts of conspiracy, armed robbery, rape, culpable homicide, and stealing of funds preferred against the eight accused persons, Justice Yusuf found the three students guilty of conspiracy, rape, and murder of Olajide, while two other telephone repairers who helped to unlock her telephone and assisted in the withdrawal of money from her account were convicted for conspiracy and stealing.

The judge, who said 13 people testified for the prosecution, while 16 witnesses, including the accused persons, were called to testify for the defendants, said the prosecution proved its case beyond a reasonable doubt.

Justice Yusuf said, “While the prosecution established the ingredients of conspiracy and armed robbery against the first three accused persons, it proved beyond reasonable doubt that injury was inflicted on the deceased and she was raped to death. 

“I direct that Abdulazeez Ismail and Ajala Moses Oluwatimileyin be hanged by the neck until they are pronounced dead.”

The prosecution counsel and former Attorney General and Commissioner for Justice, Salman Jawondo, who spoke to journalists after the court session, said, “The irony of it all is that all those involved are young men of 19, 23, etc. It’s quite unfortunate. And that shows that we have to work on our future in this country.”

Man Arrested For Murder, Robbery In Ogun (Photo)

 Men of the Ogun State Police Command have arrested Moses Ayomide, 28, for alleged armed robbery and the killing of Qudus Popoola.

The arrest of Ayomide followed a distress call received by the police at Agbado Division that armed robbers were operating at Fadahunsi in the Agbado neighborhood of Ifo Local Government Area.

According to a statement by the Ogun State police spokesperson, Abimbola Oyeyemi, the DPO of Agbado Division, SP Awoniyi Adekunle, had upon the distress call, led his men to the scene, where it was discovered that the robbers while escaping after robbing a POS operator identified as Basirat Anibire, whom they dispossessed of her bag containing N400,000 cash and Itel phone and also “shot and killed 25-year-old Qudus Popoola and injured one Faleye Oluwaseun.”

Oyeyemi said youths in the area assisted the police in chasing the armed robbers and apprehended one of them, Moses Ayomide.

The injured victim was rushed to the hospital for medical attention while the corpse of the deceased had been released to his family “on request that they needed to bury him by their religious belief,” the statement affirmed.

According to the statement, preliminary investigation revealed that the robbers, who were three in number, came on a motorcycle without a headlight at 7 pm and attacked Basirat Anibire, who was just closing her POS shop.

“The victim managed to escape from the robbers, but while running away with her seven years old son, the robbers got hold of the son, which made the woman run back to save the son. It was in the process that the robbers were able to snatch her bag and the phone,” Oyeyemi explained.

He added further that the woman’s cry for help attracted youths who pursued the robbers while a distress call was also sent to the police.

The deceased and the wounded victim were shot while trying to run away from the robbers, DAILY POST learned.

Meanwhile, Ogun State Commissioner of Police Lanre Bankole has ordered the immediate transfer of the suspect to State CIID for discreet investigation, while condoling the family of the deceased.

He assured them that the command would do everything to arrest the escaped members of the gang.

Police Arrest 5 Gay Men For Gang-Raping A Boy In Kano

 The Kano State Police Command have arrested five men for allegedly sodomising a 20-year-old man in Gwale LGA of the state.

The command’s spokesperson, DSP Abdullahi Haruna Kiyawa, in a statement on Friday, July 23, said the suspects were arrested on July 16, 2021, following a complaint from the victim’s nephew.

According to him, the complain came in on July 15, after which the victim, Tajuddeen Hashim, who complained of stomach pain, was rushed to the hospital where he was treated and later discharged.

He gave the names of the suspects as Ahmed Inuwa, Nasiru Ishyaku Moh’d, Lawan Uba, Auwalu Uba and Rabiu Sharu, who during preliminary investigation confessed to have deceived and lured the victim to various places and had anal s*x with him on several occasions.

“One of the suspects, named Rabiu Sharu, 33, further confessed that he was the first person to have lured the teenager and had an Anal S*x with him,” he said