who is to blame

People from all works of life have been asking this very Germain question: who and what is actually responsible for the high incident rape, child molestation, sexual assault, and all manner of sexual vices trending in Nigeria as we speak. While this scourge has decided to destroy our very existence as a nation.

It is time we gave proper attention to this question: Who is particularly responsible for this immoral insurgence.

Likely people that might be responsible:

1. The Nigeria lady
2. The Nigerian man

The Nigerian lady: She is the quintessential woman, the paragon of beauty, and the mother of our dear nation. The Nigerian woman is soft, elegant, fragile with commanding sexual presence. Bur one thing is very clear she has failed in keeping and promoting moral values. Women, Ladies, Girls have allowed fashion and the social media turn them into objects of rape and sexual assaults.

So many ladies hardly cover their bodies in the name of fashion. Someone might say it is their choice to go semi-nude and that shouldn't be the reason for men to abuse them sexually. Yes, I agree but we should know men are moved by what they see. if you continue to show sensitive parts of your body in the name of fashion, be rest assured these perverts will molest you.

What about social media, this where a typical Nigeria lady lives. she eats, baths, have sex, buy new things, get jilted, find a new boyfriend on the media. by doing all these you call the rapists to yourselves. The other day a lady was telling us on Facebook, that she is below the weather and someone asked her what was wrong, her response: I am menstruating. you can imagine the rubbish.

Your address, phone number, and other details are on your account and you keep inviting them to yourself.

The Nigeria man; What do I say about these creatures than to say we are fearfully and wonderfully made. But some men are putting their wonders to wrong use. it is a general notion that men are weaker when it comes to controlled sex. It has been discovered that most rapists are under the influence of alcohol, drugs, evil association, bad parenting, and pressure by society.

You see local vendors everywhere selling "paraga" the locally brewed alcohol. Drugs are sold in every slum. Friends of questionable characters are locking everywhere. The Nigerian parents have failed woefully to raise most male-child well and the economic situation of the country has turned some men into monsters.

With all these challenges does anyone have the right to rape or sexually abuse anybody, NO

With these background knowledge, who do you think should be blamed for high rates of RAPE in Nigeria